Everyone wants sex, but no one's talking dirty. Dig deep into the sexual psyches of thousands of men and women around the country, as we did, and this little irony stands out. Lack of communication—not lack of interest—is the top bedroom complaint for men. For women, it ranks second, just behind too-short foreplay. That's why it is suitable to talk about both sides to the table for a sex summit hoping, of course, that it'd end with both sides on the table. Most women want to experiment and are just waiting for you to ask so always be ready to make the first move.
Turn Her On Instantly
Women want sex especially great sex like some kind of hdporn just as much as men—if not more than—men do. But women often feel shy about making the first move. Too shy, say a lot of men who wish women would initiate more often. How to bring her out of her sexual shell? Coax her. Tempt her. Tease her as if she were a cat chasing a feather on a string, give her a deep, sigh-inducing kiss—then stop. Or pull her close, press tight against her thigh, and then move away. You're letting her know you're open to her advance but making her bring it to the next level of intimacy. Once she's comfortable making the moves, she'll be more likely to pounce when the urge strikes.
Graze her thigh
As you flirt, stand or sit within 6 inches of her. If she seems unruffled, move closer. Eventually you want your thigh to be pressed against hers, whether you're standing or sitting. If she's into it, move on to step two, if she squirms, back off. A make-out session is a prerequisite to a sexual proposition, Pay attention to how intensely she's kissing back. You want the "I want to eat you alive, starting with your head" kind of kiss, not the sweet little "I'm not really a dirty girl" kind of kiss.
